Is it closeminded or rude to not want to date a person with a kid?

Asked by Blackberry (33955) February 27th, 2010 from iPhone

Just wanted to hear your opinions on people without kids dating people with kids. My personal opinion is that it is very difficult unless both people know: “Hey, I’m ready to settle down if we end up being compatible…”. Just playing the field and not being serious with a single parent seems kind of futile, regardless of whether the parent just wants a fling or a serious relationship.

And for the sake of the question I’m talking about young children that can become confused by a random or multiple man or women coming into their life, I’m sure teens and older kids have an easier time understanding but I know it could be hard for them too.

Do you think it works successfully or is it rare when it does work? I was just having a discussion at work is all and was looking for other insight as well. 360 degrees of insight is what I look for : )