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Do you ever find yourself doing everything for certain people?

Asked by DominicX (28808points) March 6th, 2010

My roommate is like this in many ways. He asks me to do stuff for him all the time and I do it. :\

He traditionally begins the statements of request with “if you wanna”, I suppose to make it look completely optional. “If you wanna come down here and help me bring the bikes back”, “if you wanna set my lock for me”, “if you wanna check my email”, “if you wanna get my clothes ready”, etc.

Why do I keep giving in?!!! :|

There are some things I won’t do, like when he asks me to get him a piece of candy or something from the drawer that’s 5 feet away, I always say “forget it!”. But other times, I just give in and my friends are like “don’t let him do that to you”, but honestly, I wouldn’t do it if I truly minded it.

Do you think what I’m doing is bad? Have you ever been in a similar situation?

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