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Ex looking me up online?

Asked by SaturnSky (14points) March 15th, 2010

I am just curious what you make of this. I can understand someone looking an ex up online out of curiosity every now and then, but my ex has been constantly checking up on me.

I have a twitter account, and a blog. They visit my blog at least once a week since October when they found me, and my stats show they have always come from my twitter page. I know it is him as it says the company he works for on my stats, which only employs a few people. They also live about 4 hours away from me.

I also have had a fake account trying to add me on face book,which says they are from their home town. Coincidence? I decided to copy and paste a message to most of their contacts, as they didn’t have many, and none of them knew who this person was. They tried to add me for a year! They were also messaging me claiming they used to dance with me. Considering i am a dance teacher that’s a good thing to say, but they live no where near me!

I broke all contact with him after being fed up with what felt like emotional abuse. I disappeared, and have only just started coming online after about 2 years.

I also had a prank call a few weeks ago, and they were disturbed and spoke to someone who came in. Sounded like my ex! What is going on? What are your thoughts?

He tried to get me to come back for about 6 months after i disappeared through texts, would send me blank messages, ring on a withheld number, say nothing but just listen. When i gave him no reply he found a new girlfriend who he is still with.

In fact this time last year i had a withheld number one ring my phone a few times a day, for weeks. We used to do that when we were thinking of each other ( soppy i know). I am pretty sure that was him to. I don’t know anyone else who would do that, and my number has not changed as i run a business.

I don’t know what is going through his head?

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