How much do you care about what your fellow jellies think about you?

I often hear the question “how much do you care what others think of you?” but when asked this question I usually think about the people I encounter in person. Of course I care what people in general think of me, not to the point where I have sleepless nights over it but I do make the effort to be polite and a decent human being so that people will get a good impression of me. However, there are times when I care more about how I come across to my fellow jellies. I think this is because, on a site where there are a lot of opinions flying around, it could be easy to offend people and so I try to make a conscious effort to get my point across without causing offence. Another reason I care so much is because Fluther is one of my escapes from “the real world” and so I don’t want to alienate the people that also use this place as an escape.

Anyway, how much do you care about other jellies opinion of you? Would you say you care more, less or about the same for the opinions of jellies than those of the people you meet in the flesh? Have you ever worried about a disagreement you may have had here on Fluther?