Are most Girls looking for Confident outgoing guys(i've never met one That likes quiet)?

I’m in my early 30’s. From childhood to now. Going through school, i’ve never ever met a Girl that was even the least interested in me. I’m quiet.

Seems most Women are Outgoing and chatty themselves. so they look for the same. is that how it is?
Does it have to do with that biology thing where women look for guys who can protect them, so they see a shy quiet guy and think he’s not worth it.?

Even the quiet girls want outgoing loud guys.
I’ve experienced this
-at school
-at work
-in town.
-everywhere.