Is there a stopwatch set to finding love?

I remember spending many hours at the aged home where my mom was and seeing couples falling in love. It was so amazing. Some even got married. Some had cat fights over certain men. I was delighted to be honest. As many people call aged homes “Gods waiting room”. So to me it was great to see this.
But in a way aged homes are a society unto themselves.

I have been pushing love away for so long now, I won’t even say. But suddenly I want to love and be loved. Is there a time limit on it? A lot will say of course not, but if so can you site an example? I have limited myself really as all my colleagues are married or too young, my clients are all married and not my type. So my day revolves around the same people. I don’t “do” bars, I love coffee shops and walks, and I hate clubs. I must admit I don’t go out much any more. Apart from when I have too. Here as well we have a small population in terms of desirable partners. Many say love will find you, but how if I am always at home. I do have a part time boyfriend but that is another confusion in itself. I would love some great stories of people falling in love after 40 to give me hope!!