Have I emotionally cheated before?

I met this guy in class a couple years ago. I thought he was pretty attractive. He added me on facebook and then our messages became really really long letters back to back each day. We then studied for tests together and then after the quarter was over we kept in touch and hung out at least once a month. When we hung out we could talk for hours.

At first I was attracted to him I’ll admit. But I felt like I could have had the decision to be in love with him or not. I began to not have romantic feelings for him, instead I felt a closeness like a best friend, I didn’t have the want to cheat on my boyfriend or leave him, I loved my boyfriend and I would have never traded him for my friend.

Of course, his girlfriend got jealous and he had to stop talking to me after being friends for a year. We only kept in touch once every month or two.