When you were courting, was there one moment that stands out in your mind where you learned the most about your future spouse?

I don’t know if everyone will have one of these. For me, it was actually the first time I met her—we were dancing—and I felt her hands. Something about them was different from anyone else’s hands. They felt like healing hands. Sensitive hands. Later on, unfortunately, that changed. But for a number of years, that was who she was when she was around me.

In any case, I would guess that most of us could pick out a memory that stands out from the time you were learning about each other. A moment that showed you a lot about the character or sensibility or personality of your future spouse.

Can you describe that moment? Where were you? What were you doing? What was it about your future spouse that taught you so much?