If you suddenly discovered that a Fluther member lived in your neighborhood, would you want to meet them?

A few questions here because it’s happened to me…

First, let’s take for granted that you respect this person and consistently find their comments intelligent, reasonable, and mature. As well, it does seem the polite etiquette for acknowledging coincidence of the cosmos. And I must admit, I’m just plain curious.

But, I greatly value my online anonymity, sharing my true identity only with those I’ve formed longer term relationships with, or with fellow artisans that I respect.

Many viewpoints I openly share with Fluther are not so openly shared in my local reality. St. Louis is a small town, and my business thrives on relationships and reputation. My philosophical musings may be found offensive to some, and I’m not so convinced it is wise to mix business with fancy.

For instance, a good part of my business is portraiture of scientists and medical practitioners. Some might find my strong beliefs about evolution, and Theism, to be offensive. I’m always careful to discover their beliefs before I share my own.

As well, I speak a great deal about my children, and XXX relationships gone sour over the years. Is it wise to tempt fate of the rumor mill? A comment made here is designed to help others with my experience, and also to express harmless sarcasm as a stress relief. Yet those same comments taken out of context could be misinterpreted, and misused as the fuel that flames old fires to burn again. Nothing to take lightly when courts and child custody issues are involved.

How close do you bring your online experience to home? Is it best to leave some things alone? Or does curiosity and consideration mandate a personal encounter?