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What should I do to feel like I'm a part of his new life?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) June 2nd, 2010

I’m sure some of you know my history with my bf but just is case you don’t I’ll explain. I’ve been with him for almost 5 years but almost 2 years long distance. Since he’s moved he had no friends so I basically took up a lot of his time on the phone.

Since he joined the army he made a friend. Through her, he made so many friends and they all have their own little circle now and spends a lot of time with them. I don’t know any of them. I met his army friend once when I visited last month.

I feel like he has a new life, new friends, new EVERYTHING and I’m the only OLD thing. I’m just used to knowing everyone and everything in his life and understanding it. I’m so far and I can’t be a part of his new life. I’m introduced to his new life (friends) but I’m not a part of their circle at all.

I just feel left out since he has a life that sounds exciting and changing. I’m just the old gf from his old life…He tells me about his day and includes me in on it. I feel like if I moved I could be a part of his new life but I can’t right now.

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