My sister says she should be able to stop by anytime?

I did another question but maybe it was to long!

She wants to come over without calling. Then when she does, she says the only reason I let her in is because we had an argument about the issue. She said “just tell people this is how I live.” (I don’t dust much or vaccuum, which is why I would like a phone call before she comes) Then she tells me that my house used to look much better and that I am not taking care of it.