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Is it natural for a partner to feel disconnected after leaning your partner has been raped in the past?

Asked by SamG (58points) June 7th, 2010

I just learned my fiance was raped just before she met me three years ago. I feel horrible for her and sad, but simultaneously I am experiencing a sense of physical aversion right now. Additionally, I learned she did not report the person, which confuses me. I find myself being angry about that.

Is it natural to have so many emotions following this information?

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