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What does monogamy mean to you?

Asked by lapilofu (4325points) July 31st, 2010

If you are in or would like to be in a monogamous relationship, what does that mean to you?

Are you and your partner allowed to look at other people? Fantasize about other people? Spend time with other people? Cuddle? Go skinny dipping? Peck on the lips? Kiss with tongue? Oral sex? Does it matter what gender or how attractive the other people are? Do you have to tell you partner when you’re thinking about other peopleā€”or when you do anything with other people?

If a partner broke these rules, would it necessarily result in a break-up?

What are your terms and how have they worked out for you so far?

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