In your relationships do you think more PC than you end up acting?

If this is familiar for you, do you feel like a “sellout” or do you feel like you maximize your strengths and leave your partner to maximize theirs?

Exp: I’m really good at running a household, I don’t expect my partner to do things I can do better. In the same vein I do expect he carry the greater financial responsibilities like paying when we go to dinner and other extracurriculars because he makes more money.