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Would I be a bad friend to not help her move?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) August 28th, 2010

I helped my friend vacuumed her room and did a little bit of help when she moved out of her apartment a couple days ago. She’s moving into a big house on campus along with 4 other girls BUT she’ll be moving in early. So she’ll have to clean the kitchen, bathroom, and some of the rooms. She asked me to help her and I told her that I was working til 6pm but if I could get off early I’ll help her. She told me she was starting at 9am.

I just found out today my bf is visiting the day she is moving in her place. I haven’t seen my boyfriend in a long time because we are long distance, he’ll only be here a short while. I don’t want him to fly in and right away we clean the house all day. I told my friend just now that he was flying in that same day she was moving and she got angry. But I never even agreed to clean the house, I just said that I’d help if I could get off work early, even then she’ll have 9 hours by herself of cleaning.

What do I do? Do I just bring my bf along to help clean or watch???

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