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Can a guy be in a relationship and not have sex?

Asked by xTheDreamer (897points) September 6th, 2010

Can a guy be in a relationship for approximately 2–3 years with a girl and not have sex?

Do YOU(guys and girls) think it’s possible?

Say for instance the girl is a virgin, she wants to hold out till marriage but when she gets a boyfriend and the boyfriend is not a virgin. Do you think he will be able to wait that long till marriage or until she would be ready? And NOT cheat on her in between the time they’re dating just because the girlfriend can’t give the guy any pleasure.

Are there guys out there that is capable of waiting until the girl is ready to give herself up after 2–3 years of dating or until marriage? As there are some guys when they know that the girl won’t give him anything they’d break up with her after a month or less.

I was just wondering if there are guys that would be that patience, loyal, faithful and respects the girl decision on her abstinence or wait till she’s ready to give herself to the guy.

Let me know what you(guys and girls) think/your opinions are.

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