Any success stories with beating OCD and severe anxiety?

This past year and a half has been a bitch, it all started with being diagnosed with HPV, then snowballed into extremely low self-esteem, which in turn has now ruined my ability to be in a relationship. Now all I’m doing is hooking up with girls (telling them up front that I have HPV), and dropping them a week later. I hate it, my number is steadily climbing, and all I really want is a steady girlfriend. My psychologist believes I’m still not over what happened a year and a half ago, and that’s the source of everything. It’s ramped my OCD up so bad that everything triggers it, and with that causes anxiety so bad that I sweat like crazy. I’m also on Wellbutrin, which isn’t really helping….at least I don’t think it is, or maybe it’s one of those things where it really was working but you think it’s not…who knows, help?