Is being "timid" an unattractive characteristic in your eyes?

My definition of timid is: easily frightened, or shy.

I found it quite offensive when a co-worker of mine told me that I was “timid”. I didn’t like the sound of the word at all. I told him that I was only timid in certain places, and being new to that work area, I was nervous as well. I asked him if it was a bad thing, and the reply was “yes”. He also told me that I needed to be corrupted! I found him to be a little irritating afterwards.

Sure, I was timid there, and yes, I can be timid in some places, depending on the people, and my comfortability, but his straightforwardness and suggestion of me becoming corrupt, I found somewhat rude.

Anyhow, how would you view a “timid” person? I suppose they would seem not too fun, or even annoying?

I feel as if my personality ranges a bit too much, but those that know me well have seen it all. Those that know me well also know that I’m barely ever “timid’.