I’m confused?
So there is this guy that is pretty cute, and there are some times I don’t like him. But whenever I don’t want to have an interest in him it’s like I’m getting dragged back to him somehow, almost like a magnet. It happens every single time I don’t want to have an interest in him. Why does that keep happening?
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Because that you don’t want to is not equal to that he’s already got your attention. And his cuteness could cover the things you do not like about him.
Elie Wiesel said, “The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.”
Of the times you say that you don’t like the boy, that’s you “trying not to like” the boy; apparently you can’t be indifferent and simply not care. So you like the boy, eh? That’s not so bad; you could do worse.
I have a suggestion. Get a piece of paper and draw a vertical line down the middle. On one side, list all the reasons for liking the guy and on the other side list all the reasons for not liking him. I am not promising any miracles, but I have found that putting thoughts in writing helps to move your thinking forward.
Being “cute” does NOT equal being able to “love”!!! Enjoy being attracted to him but be HONEST with yourself by realizing that there’s a darn good chance that it will NEVER become a serious relationship. Then, by chance, IF it does, you will be pleasantly surprised. My guess is that you’ll be in for a LOT of heartache!!!
Maybe you need to learn to be a little more HONEST with yourself & to learn self control. That can save you from the pain of heartaches!!!
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