Can i fix his kissing ?

No, but constructive criticism never hurt anyone. After all we all want to be better lovers than we are. And if that is not true with your bf then thats not good news. Just be nice when you say something, people are easily offended and insecure.

If you really ”<3” your boyfriend, you should be open with him about it. As a guy, I would be very embarrassed if a girl stopped in the middle of a kiss and said, “You’re a terrible kisser.” Try hinting at it slightly and telling him how he can improve. As LKidKyle1981 said, a little constructive criticism never hurt anyone.

One approach could be to jokingly suggest he’s removing your make-up, something like “I spent all that time making myself pretty for you…..”
It’s not too harsh, but should get the point across.

And if you don’t wear make-up, moisturiser, perhaps?

Welcome, @FunkyChick. There’s a Fluther discussion of this subject here and also some pertinent comments here, if you’re interested.

I’ve found that the best way to “fix” someone’s kissing style is to train him to do otherwise. Kiss how you would like to be kissed, take control and tell him specifically what to do in a sexy way, guide him to do what you want. If he does something right, keep going. If he does something wrong, pull away. It’s a method of conditioning. He should pick up on the positive response and do those things more often than those that he gets negative responses from.

“Stop that!”

one of my past boyfriends was an awful kisser. In fact, every time he leaned it, I was reminded of a catfish with his big gaping mouth and then I started to laugh…heh…anyways…

The best thing to do is to first drop hints. Use negative feedback when he does something you don’t like, and positive feedback when he does something better. If the hints don’t work, then be brutally honest (hey, you tried to be subtle about it before and it didn’t work!).

Seriously though, if kissing is important to you and you can’t STAND doing it with him, it’s something you need to fix or you will feel frustrated and unsatisfied.

Try the “Let’s play a game” approach. Tell him you want to play a sex game and he has to lay perfectly still and let you do whatever you want. Start very slowly and distinctly with kissing, make sure he just holds completely still. The murmur in a sexy voice something like “I love the way this feels” or “if you did this to me, I’d melt”. Then when he does do something you like, make sure he knows it (sexy little moans, whatever). If he’s got a brain, he’ll catch on.

I had this problem with a girl I dated a while ago. She kissed desperately and it was nothing like what I expected from her.

Stop them, gaze into their eyes, and whisper “kiss me… slowly”. Peck their lips a little.

Kiss them a little more. Ease to a good, gentle kiss.

If they start trying to swallow your head again, just stop them and repeat.

While communication is important, having to tell someone that they’re a bad kisser might just end up making them embarressed or nervous, so if you can ease them into something else it’s not the worst idea.

The key is to communicate that you want to do something a bit different, not radically change anything or throw out something bad.

Then just keep asking for the “new thing” until it becomes the norm.

Once you’ve dated someone for longer, you can gradually open up more and more and more openly discuss what you prefer without any embarressment; but since it sounds like a new relationship it might be beneficial to ‘beat around the bush’ a little.

When I say she kissed desperately, I mean it was like she was falling over or something and the only way to stay upright was to suck on my face. Other than that, I loved her to bits.

there is no way of correcting the problem without talking about it. You say you love the guy, hopefully he loves you too… if this is the case you should be able to talk about these things…. you tell him what you like and i believe he’ll do his best to try and please you!
In all things comunication is the key.
You’ll never get what you want if you’re not open enough with eachother to ask.