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What was the worst date you ever went on?

Asked by le_inferno (6194points) May 19th, 2010

For me, it was with my prom date who I didn’t know very well. After it’d been established that we were gonna go to prom together, we’d hung out in my group of friends a couple times but didn’t talk much. He was always super awkward and didn’t know how to handle the ladies. Consequently, he was anything but suave with me. I always bounce off the vibes of other people, so I felt uncomfortable too. Eventually he got the balls to ask me to the movies. I agreed, seeing little alternative—I was going to prom with the kid, I may as well try and warm up to him, but I just knew it was going to be horrible. My expectations were met. He was no less awkward than usual, and his driving was terrible. He drove like an old man, super slow and rapidly moving the wheel back and forth like they do in cartoons. During the movie, I kept my arms crossed because I didn’t want him to try to make any moves. The whole time, I just felt mildly repulsed. Afterwards we waited for my friend to get out of work (the theater was in an outlet mall), but it took her about a half hour to come out. This was an excruciating 30 mins; the guy and I had nothing to say to each other. When my friend finally came, the 3 of us headed to a small party, where everyone knew about the date and asked us about it. I wanted to crawl in a hole and die. I was embarrassed by the speculation and attention, and pretty embarrassed of my date by that point. Everyone who I spoke to seemed to subtly poke fun at me about my nerdy date and it just got to me (when he was absent of course). When he dropped me off, he walked me to my porch (even though I tried to give him a hug in the car), and the goodbye was just awkward as hell. I hugged him, he tried to kiss me; it ended up somewhere on the side of my head. I walked into the house and just wanted to cry, it was all so awful. And with that I entreat you all to share your experiences as well!

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jazmina88's avatar

i blotted it out of my mind. sorry :(

john65pennington's avatar

I have read your story and here is my answer. your prom date was of your choosing. could you have said no to the date? yes. you took the chance and it bombed on you. thats water under the bridge now and just look to the future. consider this prom date as “a learning experience in life”. i am sorry the date ruined your prom.

Worst date i ever had involved a girl i liked very much. she lived the next street over from me. we had been friends for a while, before our first date. i arrived to pick her up and everthing was fine, UNTIL i closed the car door behind me, after i sat down in my car. i smelled BO! it was terrible. i quitely turned on the AC for fresh air, until she complained she was cold. i was trapped. how does a person handle a situation like this? i suffered the whole night. i tried to think of the smell of a fresh rose. i added extra cologne to my face to kill the smell. i kept the windows rolled down. i made it through the date and told her goodbye. i never contacted her again.

nailpolishfanatic's avatar

To tell you really I have never gone on a date before:(

Silhouette's avatar

Blind date with the brother of my best friends boyfriend. I can put up with just about anything for a few hours but B/O ain’t one of them.

Primobabe's avatar

Although this happened many, many years ago, I still reel when I think about it. This guy and I were having the usual first-date conversation—where did you grow up, where does your family live, what do you do for fun, etc. I mentioned that my father was dying of cancer. He smirked and said, “Oh, how touching.” Then, he laughed and said, “Don’t mind me. I’m just a cynic.” I grabbed my purse and excused myself, presumably to visit the rest room, but I kept walking out the door and into a cab.

le_inferno's avatar

@Primobabe What an ass! That is probably the least acceptable response I can think of to someone telling you that their family member is dying. Being cynical does not necessarily mean you’re a colossally inconsiderate jerk. Sigh

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