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Have you ever heard of a straight guy who likes gay porn?

Asked by Gary (25points) May 30th, 2010

I recently realized that I really love watching gay porn. I’m straight and married and have never done anything sexualy with a guy. Even the thought of it grosses me out. But i accidentally saw some gay porn online and I liked it. I thought about it for a while and then I looked at more. At first I felt perverted and it felt wrong but then I felt better about it and now I love watching it. It turns me on so much. Are there other guys like me?

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XOIIO's avatar

Ummm o. A straight guy who likes gay porn is either gay, or bi.

MissAnthrope's avatar

@XOIIO – I mean this in a really nice way, but… bullshit. :) By your train of thought there, if I, as a gay woman, watched straight porn, that would make me straight or bi?

Sexuality is interesting, as is what turns individuals on. I’m a lesbian and I happen to really like gay male porn. Does that make me straight, or bi, or a gay man? No. It makes me a lesbian who enjoys watching two dudes get it on. Big whoop.

The thing is, I’ve analyzed what I like about it. Hetero porn has this weird vibe of men being dominant over women, the women simply being sex objects, something pretty to look at while the men do whatever the hell they want. “Lesbian” porn is not really lesbian porn, it’s this male fantasy idea of what a lesbian is, what guys want to see, and is not at all based in reality. (and thus, totally difficult for me to get into and not arousing in the least)

Gay male porn is arousing to me because it’s fairly straight-forward. It’s obvious when the guys are enjoying it (ahem), there is no weird sexism or subjugation of anyone, it’s just kinda raw and hot.

Anyway, @Gary, I would bet you are not alone. :)

zenele's avatar

@Gary If just the thought grosses you out, then how can a visual not?

gemiwing's avatar

I know straight men who watch hardcore gay porn, lesbians who love gay male porn, straight people who like gay men porn- sexy is sexy and people like to get off to sexy.

There are people who jerk off in shoes- doesn’t mean they’re going to date/marry one.

Lightlyseared's avatar

Yes. So what.

MacBean's avatar

I’m not personally aware of any (because, frankly, a majority of the guys I know are either gay/bi or homophobes) but I’m absolutely certain they exist. @MissAnthrope and @gemiwing both gave great answers that make mine much shorter because I don’t have to repeat what they’ve said. :D

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I know of some yes – but it’s kind of hard for them to share these things with people because of our heteronormative society…so I’m sure plenty of straight guys get off on gay porn but don’t openly discuss this with others. @XOIIO speaking from experience?

XOIIO's avatar

Well a couple pop-ups that werekind of wierd have given me some experience, but the whole idea turns me off, and I haven’t heard of anyone who is dead on %100 straight who likes gay porn.

loser's avatar

Well, I haven’t heard of any straight guys who like gay porn. What does it really matter, though? If you enjoy it, go have fun!

Draconess25's avatar

I know several. It doesn’t seem odd to me at all.

DominicX's avatar

Gay male porn is arousing to me because it’s fairly straight-forward. It’s obvious when the guys are enjoying it (ahem), there is no weird sexism or subjugation of anyone, it’s just kinda raw and hot.

Amen to that.

Anyway, to the question. Sexuality labels are just that: labels. That doesn’t mean they are 100% accurate. You label yourself how you want to. If you don’t see yourself as ever being sexually or romantically involved with another man, but you like gay porn, then there’s no reason to change your sexuality label.

And no, I’ve never heard of it. But the only straight guys I know are college guys. They would never ever admit to it.

stardust's avatar

I don’t know, but you’re you & if that’s what you like, then what does it matter? :) There’s no rule-book that comes with one’s sexuality.

SmileBeautiful's avatar

i know a straight women, who likes gay porn. ===Me lol

XOIIO's avatar

Wom*an*

loser's avatar

Wo man?

XOIIO's avatar

She is one person, and she reffered to herself. Wom*an* not wom*en*.

MissAnthrope's avatar

@XOIIO – People mistype that all the time.

XOIIO's avatar

Meh. Incorrect grammar bothers me. The “WTF?” was because the formating didn’t work.

Jude's avatar

“lesbians who love gay male porn”

That would be me.

Oh, and what @MissAnthrope said. =)

christiangirl5's avatar

Does your wife know? Because I just found out my husban was chatting with men and it’s horrifying to know that he should be thinking of me instead of chatting nasty with other men or women! I suggest you stop all together because it could ruin your marriage. Answer this question: Is watching gay porn worth ruining your life and risking everything you have?

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