Those of you in inter-religious marriages does Christmas take over?

Actually, what I am more specifically curious about is if the Christian side of the family remembers to call you during your holidays if you are unable to celebrate together? If you are Jewish do they call you on Chanukah or Rosh Hashanah? Do you call them for Christmas? If you trade gifts for Christmas, have they ever made a move to give you your gift on Chanukah, or whatever holiday is yours?

How does it work in your family? How do you balance the two religions with the extended family, and do you feel the extended family treats everyone the same?