[NSFW] What would your ideal lover look like?

What really rings your bell? Big lips, big hips, big nips? Huge biceps, huge chest, huge schlong? Get down to the details. Large labia like a taco or tucked in like a little girl? Huge clit or tiny one? Hairy crotch or shaved? Big breasts or tiny tits—little pink nipple-buds or huge, boob-like areola with thimble size beep brown nipples on top. Black coffee, mocha or milk white skin? Manly man, epicene, of effeminate? Butchy boyish girl or flowingly fem? Maybe a true hermaphrodite would give you the best of both worlds. There are no rules in the world of fantasy. Facial hair on men? Body hair on men or shaved and bronzed muscle-man look. Women with body hair or shaved crotch, pits, legs, arms, face? Get really specific.

This question A question about male and female anatomy looked at the relation between clit size and penis size. In other words, if a woman has a big clit, would she be hung like a horse if she had been born a male? What struck me in the discussion of this is how many times the issue of big or small this, that, or the other body part popped up. So I wondered, just what do we dream of in our heart of hearts? What’s your ideal partner, be they male, female or even a gender bender? Feel free to let your fantasies speak.

Just one word of warning. Looks aren’t everything. In fact, they are pretty low on the list of what’s truly important in getting along with a mate for a lifetime. So if you have a partner who is nothing like your ideal lover, you might want to make note that what you specify is just a fantasy ideal, and not all that important in real world relationships if there is any chance your mate might read your disclosure here.