What do you assume people mean when they accuse Christians of being hateful?

Please tell us if you are Christian or not, and what you assume the people saying it are specifically talking about.

If you admit to using or accusing Christians of being hateful, what are you specifically referring to?

I ask because on a Q a week or two ago, someone who is Christian stated they think people who use hateful are refferring to how Christians treat non Christians as outsiders and that those people can’t go to heaven. When I use hateful, I am not talking about that at all. I’ll reveal exactly what I mean after some answers come in.