Is it difficult for you, in a debate, to get over the blasphemy of someones point of view, and at least applaud their efforts.

My point is I’ve noticed that with the short time I’ve been on fluther, I am operating on here a bit differently than some other jellies. I’ve noticed that even though I completely disagree with someone’s rebuttal towards my opinion I always give them a great answer or I respond to them with “good point” or something to that extent. It seems though that when I try to add to my point of view towards my questions through answers, no one gives me a great answer, but to all the other points made in rebuttal to mine, are getting 6 to 7 great answers. I am not saying I am bitter or that this is consuming my mind but its just weird how no one is acknowledging my efforts lol

Which brings me to the question, am I doing something wrong here on fluther by consistently handing out “great answers” or giving acknowledgement to opposing views. Should I just worry about myself? Is this what you guys do?