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(NSFW) Is it true that most teen guys won't resist free 'favors' from their friends?

Asked by Your_Majesty (8212 points ) August 23rd, 2011

I’ve come across some questions where the OPs, usually teenagers, was wondering if they (including LGBT) can give ‘favors’ to their male friends, just friends, maybe with a bit unapproved-infatuation.

Most of the responders said that it’s OK to do that since most of them they’ve experienced such situation and pretty sure about this particular tendency. they were posted in US site.

While most of us know that teenage-period is the time when boys are exploring and haunted by raging hormones it could also be suspected that not every boys willing to that (religion influences, lower self-esteem, etc). So, if we talking about the majority, do you personally believe that is true? Or have ever witnessed such Phenomenon?

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wundayatta's avatar

Like you, I’ve heard a lot about this. However, I have never experienced it. It is written about in many stories. I have a friend who experienced it in the boy scouts. In fact, he told me that scouting was a hot bed of this kind of activity. He turned out to be gay, though. But I had the impression that a lot of gay boys seek out scouting for this reason.

I don’t know what to think about how many boys do it. I had only read about it before I got into college, and I never knew anyone who said they had participated, so I wasn’t sure I should even believe it existed. I believe it now, but I have no idea how prevalent it is. But given the anti-homosexual attitude among boys, it would seem likely it isn’t that prevalent, unless people who do it are the ones who deny it most vociferously. Then I’d have to say it happens a lot.

tedd's avatar

Wait are we talking bj’s from friends including males and females, or just males? I’m confused.

Londongirl's avatar

Are you joking??!! Call me old fashion ok.

JLeslie's avatar

I assumed this question is for both boys and girls willing to give blowjobs.

It seems, according to the media, that girls are giving out blow jobs left and right mostly because of peer pressure. Not sure ow accurate that really is. I once saw a show aout it on Oprah, there were some teens on the show. One of the boys said basically, “well if she wants to do it, I am not going to stop her.” The camera flashed to the girl, and her face was disgusted and horrified. She had done it because she thought she had to for him, that it was expected. She never would have said she was the one who wanted to do it in the particular situation. In that moment her regret was so obvious, I felt bad for her.

I am 43, so it seems some things have changed since I was younger. When I was young sex was talked about all the time, and people lost their virginity fairly young also, but we were not giving out blow jobs to just any guy.

I do know of quite a few stories of gay boys giving each other blow jobs when they were younger, but I guess that is sort of the equivalent of straight young couples having sex. These were told to me by adults my age recalling their youth.

TexasDude's avatar

Apparently, it’s common, but I never did it (never wanted to at all) and I never knew anyone who did either.

I’m sure it varies by region.

ETA: I recall reading a parenting manual once (published in the early 90s), where it advised parents not to get upset if they walk in on their son and his friends engaged in a huge circle jerk because it is a natural part of growing up. Lol, I guess it is common after all. Still, I don’t recall ever beating off any of my friends. Your mileage may vary, though.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

I’ve not hear of it either.

Hibernate's avatar

Depends who are those. Just because some people know a bunch of guys who won’t decline “favours” doesn’t mean most will say “yeah give it to me baby”.

Your_Majesty's avatar

@tedd Yes, I was talking about both LGBT and non-LGBT teens.
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I’m not sure if it’s more common but there were more stories about gay teens wanting to give BJ to their male best friends, some even have done it and ended up in a relationship.

Forgive me if I’m wrong but I was thinking that the majority of male teenagers would be more easily to be persuaded to for sex. Interesting…Some adults could also be like that.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I have never heard of this from non-LGBT teens. I hear about a lot of girls doing it, but no guys.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Are you asking if it’s commonplace that teens guys give each other bj’s to ease sexual tension? No way, I’ve definitely not heard of that. Many of my guy friends do say they were hit on as teens by other guys who wanted to do that for them and it was a big awkward moment and often a change in friendships.

JLeslie's avatar

I think we need more teens to answer.

beccagolling's avatar

I’m a female and I have done it. When I was 16 in fact. It wasn’t out of presure, or because I felt that was expected of me. I did it out of love that is why I did it. And we are still together. :)

JLeslie's avatar

@beccagolling Were you dating at the time?

josie's avatar

Probably true.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

I haven’t heard of boys blowing boys, but I hear about girls blowing boys all the time. In fact, it’s getting more and more common for high school and even junior high cheerleaders to give freebie blowjobs to the football players before games, “for luck”.

tedd's avatar

If we’re talking about girls or boys, then this doesn’t shock me at all. At least from the male side of it. I have a hard time thinking that many girls would feel that much pressure or motivation to give a BJ to someone they weren’t dating for no reason, but I do not have a hard time thinking that a guy would jump at the opportunity. Hell if I were a single man, and a female friend of mine who I found even somewhat attractive and trusted to be clean of disease/etc offered to do that…. I would probably accept, and I would guess most guys would.

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