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[NSFW] The wrong named screamed at the right moment, what would it do, or not, for you?

Asked by Hypocrisy_Central (26879points) September 12th, 2011

If you met this hot person of the opposite sex, or same sex if you bat that way, causally, at the company BBQ, at a party, a wedding, etc. Everything is going famously for a few weeks or more. You finally have the ”horizontal mambo” wicked sweaty you know, for those who need it spelled out, but not going and they reach the Big ‘O’ but while hitting it they grunt out, ”Oh [blank]!”, and that name uttered was not your name. What would that do to you? Because of the newness of the relationship, you would excuse it as they forgot your name? Would it be an instant mood killer? What would you think if it happened to you? [NSFW]

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Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

I would be done with that person.

I would act like nothing happened for a few minutes. Act as if I am increasingly disappointed in the sex.

Stop having sex. Look at her, say “look, I don’t think this is going to work out”.

When she asks why, refuse to answer. Leave.

rebbel's avatar

My brother’s name is Blank, so I would not be amused.
Of course I would be surprised, to say the least, but since it was new/our first mambo I would probably laugh it away depending also on her reaction to it…, if she laughs from shyness I think it’s cool.

chyna's avatar

Mood killer! I’d probably stop right there and then, get dressed and leave. Or have him leave. Sure, it’s an accident, but in your description, it’s not a one night stand, we’ve gotten to know each other.

ddude1116's avatar

I’d laugh..

BeccaBoo's avatar

Maybe its just that he/she is so used to saying it that its become habit, and forgotten themselves for a second because they are enjoying it??

tlm's avatar

I’d ask what the fuck.

Haleth's avatar

People fantasize about other people all the time during sex. If they let the wrong name slip out, that just means they have less self-control than some. My feelings would be hurt, but depending on other factors in the relationship, I might still see them again.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

@tlm Why ask that? You are already doing it. LOL LOL OK, sotty about that, but you backed right intothat one. ;-)

King_Pariah's avatar

Sorry Hun I ain’t god but I’m the closest you’ll get. :)

dappled_leaves's avatar

I thought that only happened on TV. Has anyone ever heard of it happening to anyone real?

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