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Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

Men, are you good with women?

Asked by Imadethisupwithnoforethought (14682points) October 5th, 2011

Do you think you are good with women?

Being a divorced man, I would love to hear your best strategies.

I have already asked women what their strategies are, I am curious what other men are doing and whether these have proved successful or not.

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Blackberry's avatar

I just have problems “getting in there”, but once a woman knows me better, it’s downhill from there. But I think meeting and getting past trivial small talk which is subterfuge for a relationship interview is hard for everyone.

Jude's avatar

Predators?

Blackberry's avatar

@Jude Huh?

Oh. Haha! Yeah, predators? I tried that and it doesn’t work.

digitalimpression's avatar

Historically I don’t do anything. They just sort of… flock to me. (all lies)

If I could figure out a woman I’d be elected as president of the world.

Jude's avatar

@Blackberry check his tags.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

@Jude check my tags when I asked women their pick up lines

Jude's avatar

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought I had no idea that that question even existed. Let me go look.

Jude's avatar

Predators sounds creepy. Sorry.

Blackberry's avatar

@Jude Just wondering, but why does a single word creep you out lol?

GabrielsLamb's avatar

I know they’re not ALL like this, but in my own personal experience, men are habitual liars, they are shady, evil and will promise love and all the bells and whistles and then screw you over faster than sheet metal to a hole in the wall. Then when you get hurt, or pissed off… It’s YOUR fault for being stupid and listening to them.

Yep… that’s about my expierences over the past 3 years.

Nullo's avatar

I tend to be awkward.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

@Jude does this mean that you will answer the original question, or were you just making a generic complaint?

Jude's avatar

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought I’m good with women. :)

CWOTUS's avatar

As soon as I figure out what you mean by “good with women”, I’ll try to respond.

I’m polite and respectful. I appreciate the hell out of them. I’m more often than not halfway in love with most of them I meet, and that only grows over time (to a point, anyway). I love (most of) the differences between them and me / us. And I’ve been told that I’m pretty good in the sack, too, if that’s what you meant.

I’m just no good at “choosing”, apparently.

thesparrow's avatar

If I had one advice to all of you men out there, it’s—cooking.

GabrielsLamb's avatar

@Jude Hoot Hoot Holla! LOL

GabrielsLamb's avatar

@CWOTUS I dub thee… “Good with women.”

Steer clear of the bitch buffet and you’ll be just fine!

Blackberry's avatar

I would rather be good with that one great woman, than be good with a bunch of sub-par women.

bob_'s avatar

Fuck yeah.

Jude's avatar

Hahaha!

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

Yes. To answer otherwise would be lying.

augustlan's avatar

@GabrielsLamb Well that’s just sad. You’ve got to start meeting better men!

thesparrow's avatar

I have a good question. WHY IS FLUTHER BECOMING BORING?

Bellatrix's avatar

If it is boring @thesparrow, why not ask us some interesting questions? Perhaps that will spice things up a little for you and anyone else who is bored.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

wow. She really answered a question for men and lesbians twice, once to say it was boring? wow.

CWOTUS's avatar

Oh, well. If we’re scooching the jelly anyway, then I’d say it’s becoming boring – to the extent that it is becoming so – because some people are more intent on being entertained than they are on providing the entertainment. This is the same way that a lot of parents become boring to their children, “because they just work and pay the bills and nag at us to do our homework an’ shit”.

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