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Happily married, but feel weird about this?

Asked by Newyork19 (8points) August 25th, 2022 from iPhone

Had a crush on another at 12years old, met 3x, minimal interaction, exchanged cheesy letters for over a month then parted ways. Story twist, I wed the cousin of his. Why does he blush, stare, feel uneasy when around me? He’s married.

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RayaHope's avatar

I would need more information to come to any conclusion. Like your age when you got married and his age. If it was long ago that you exchanged letters and he is STILL uneasy don’t make a lot of sense.

elbanditoroso's avatar

Men never forget their first crush.

I’m late in my 60s and I remember Laurie – my first crush, from 4th grade. Even though I haven’t seen her in 50 years. We used to write notes to each other.

SnipSnip's avatar

Are you an adult?

Newyork19's avatar

I’m 28. Reason being, there’s ongoing family celebrations, it feels weird. I make an effort to ignore it and carry on a conversation, it nearly seems as like he is trying to collect his thoughts and feels uneasy.
I’m trying to determine the cause that’s all?

RayaHope's avatar

^^ Why don’t you just talk to him? Ignoring this won’t make it go away. You two are adults after-all. Talking stuff out is the best way to solve problems.

HP's avatar

Ask him

Forever_Free's avatar

He never got over you.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Heather’s baaaack.

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