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What are some signs that could tell me that she doesn't want to be with me?

Asked by meandyou (4points) December 31st, 2008

you kno like i want to know how i could tell that she doesnt want to be with me

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meandyou's avatar

i would like to know what could be some signs that could tell me if my girl doesnt want to be with me?

peedub's avatar

She doesn’t wanna hangout with you on new years eve?

Perchik's avatar

Talk to her. Talk about why you’re together.
Seriously, If she won’t talk to you about it…there’s your sign.

jonsblond's avatar

She doesn’t call you back?

Tantigirl's avatar

If I was you I’d bite the bullet and ask her outright. If you don’t want to do that, then I’d look for the following:

she doesn’t call you
she doesn’t answer when you call
she is busy when you suggest getting together
she cancels plans at the last moment, and she cancels often
she just doesn’t show up

basically she is avoiding you if those things are happening, and I’d expect that she doesn’t want to be with you. If she doesn’t want to be with you, as upsetting as that may be initially, I suspect that you wouldn’t want to be with someone who couldn’t or wouldn’t be honest with you in the first place.

AlfredaPrufrock's avatar

I agree with Tantigirl. You should talk to her. Let us know.

galileogirl's avatar

She takes out a restraining order.

cherryberry's avatar

Body laguage and eye-contact. People don’t pay much attention to it, but it tells the tale every time. That is assuming, of course, that she will be in the same room with you at some point. If not then you have your answer.

dearest_prudence's avatar

ask her, most direct and easiest way

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