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Have you ever stalked an ex-boyfriend or his new gf?

Asked by punkrockworld (949 points ) February 23rd, 2009

Or just went really far into following him, tracking him down on myspace or facebook or whatever?
Cuz I have =]

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TitsMcGhee's avatar

Tracking someone down on facebook no longer constitutes stalking; in fact, it is considered ‘normal’ behavior, as far as I know… I have “checked up” on exes, but I don’t think I’ve ever taken it over the top.

punkrockworld's avatar

I know it’s not stalking, but it is when you know he doesn’t check yours. It kinda feels like you’re doing something you shouldn’t be doing.

loser's avatar

Let’s just say… yes.

Bluefreedom's avatar

I’m going to go with ‘no’ on the whole stalking thing but ‘voyeurism’ is a whole different animal. Those eyes you see in your window? They’re probably mine.

augustlan's avatar

Ew, blue! No peeking.

Bluefreedom's avatar

@augustlan. Too late and I’ve got to admit, you look mighty hot this evening. :o)

augustlan's avatar

Ha! If you could only see me right now…

Bluefreedom's avatar

@augustlan. I have a very active imagination. Wink. Wink.

Jack79's avatar

gosh only a woman would ever ask a question like that!

I have “stalked” an ex gf, though I don’t really like the word. We lived in a small town at the time and I had to pass by her place anyway due to traffic restrictions, and yes I’d always look up to see if the light was on at her window or if the other guy’s car was parked outside. I’d also notice if the guy’s car was parked outside his own place (which is a block away from mine and I have to pass by anyway). But other than that, I wouldn’t really go out of my way.

emmy23's avatar

haha I think everyone does that from time to time lol If they really like a guy/girl, then its hard to get over them. So when your ex gets a new person ur almost obsessed with making urself miserable by watching them and wishing it was you with them. So yes I have done it before but its pretty commom i think.

dragonflyfaith's avatar

I have looked an ex up on myspace. Not because I still want him or anything. More to see if he is still the loser I knew him as ten years ago. For the record, he is.

jamzzy's avatar

kinda, its good to block them like i did though. it keeps it away from you. but i hate it when her friends post up new pictures with her in it, and im like crap…i must look and completly investigate the picture.

phillis's avatar

I did, until I developed self-esteem and realized I had a place in this life. Once I realized that, he suddenly didn’t seem so important anymore. He was another person trying to make his way, just like I was. He was human again.

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