Use Stilulex or HGW the first time?

I think it’s laughable.

You’re not going to be perfect your first time. Accept it, be honest with your partner, and do the best you can.

If you can’t admit to your partner that it’s your first time, the sex is probably going to suck, because it will be all about your ego and your worries, and not about what feels good for your partner.

Honest? Hah. I’m 23 so being honest is not an option anymore. I have a reputation to protect :).

Plus I think it would actually be better for my partner if I used the drugs. I’de last longer! Human innovation is amazing

No, you’re only gonna make it worse. By all means DON’T DO THAT.

My first time it took me a hour and a half to come. And i guarantee, it didn’t get any longer with time, you learn and you get better, it takes you less time because you learn HOW you like it.

If you don’t want to waste her completely (and not in a good way) i suggest you don’t do that.

@MrAnonymous Lasting longer isn’t necessarily a good thing. It’s making the time worth it that matters.

I’m with the same GF since december 2007, i have been having sex with her since a month later. As of now I manage to make her come at least 2 times in normal circumstances in about 15 minutes of sex. When i used to last longer i couldn’t manage to.

Why? Feeling good means you’re doing it right, and the better you feel the better you get. When i WANT to cum, i get faster, hit harder and she likes it better.

But if you don’t feel good you get tired and after a while you get sloppy.
And when you start being sloppy the whole thing becomes “i just want this shit to end”, the magic is gone and the whole experience becomes only a really exhausting version of bad foreplay.

Your inexperience will show to an experienced person so don’t hide it, be honest and you will be glad you did. If the other person is as inexperienced as you then the probably won’t notice so your level of honesty is up to you.

@MrAnonymous: Believe, your partner will be able to tell it’s your first time.

What makes it good for your partner is to pay attention and do the things that your partner likes. When you think only about lasting longer, it’s not about what your partner likes, it’s about your own ego, and as long as it’s about your ego, the sex will be eminently forgettable for your partner.

I definitely would not do that if I were you. You’re not going to look bad. And if you do, I don’t think drugs are going to help that. If anything they’ll make you look much worse. You need to have your head in the game, (no pun intended) not worried about how long you’ll last but how much you’re pleasing your partner. This would be like taking a Stacker before you went to the gym and let me tell you right now, I would probably have cardiac arrest as soon as I got started.
Reputation to protect? What does that mean? Have you been lying about whether or not you’re a virgin?