Should I get back together with my ex?

Perhaps it was a mutual friend he had met and confided in but did not see as a “date” and he wants to preserve the friendship and perhaps the confidence of their discussions? It could be something that innocent. I’d say, yes, take him back, and be a bit cautious but not overly suspicious. If there is anything going on, he’ll probably slip up under your watchful eye. See ya…Gary aka wtf

Do you trust this man?
I know things are never simple when concerning love and passions
But any break up is for a reason and you need to know that he respects you
It doesn’t sound like he does when he is not willing to be open about what has gone on…

You are NOT being selfish wanting to know. There should be no secrets x
Much love and luck x

Why you broke up with him in the first place is probably important to answering this question…

You want to give this relationship the best shot. He called you. He wanted to get back together.

Insisting on knowing what he did and who he did it with while you two were broken up does not seem like a good start. Why aren’t you focusing on the fact that he showed he cared by wanting to get back together?

I see two possible reasons.

1. He has given you reason to distrust him in other areas in the past. If that is so, to rebuild trust he needs to open and honest even about something that normally would be outside the purview of your relationship.

2. You have a suspicious and controlling approach to relationships. If that is the case, you need to get some help to deal with your insecurities, because they are likely to cause you great unhappiness in life and love.

You have to talk about romantic history in a relationship. If you start by keeping secrets, it’s a shaky foundation for a relationship.

He showed he cared by calling and wanting to get back with you. No, you are not selfish for wanting to know what he was doing while you were apart. But you must ask yourself why it is that important. If you two had trust issues to begin with, why get back with someone who makes you feel that way, and makes you question things to start with? If that’s not the case, I too would feel the same way. I would want to know why, and who, and what day…etc :) But that’s not the important thing. The important thing is that he wants to be with you, so if you trust him, why not let it go and focus on the thing you wanted…him back in your life.

I’m not good with this, it kinda stings.

Just be open and relax, he’ll love you no matter what ;)