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How can I know my girlfriend does really love me?

Asked by Beargyi (51points) December 9th, 2009

I am falling in love with my girlfriend for 3 years.We had dated twice in a month,we talk how about we love each other,a few kisses , hugs some times we had.Her ex boyfriend did not know about it, he live far away from her.He sent some gifts to her until now and phoned her some times she accepted his call and talk with him, does she really love me or her ex boyfriend ? How can I know?She said she love me and want to marry me next year.

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chelseababyy's avatar

You just have to trust her.

nikipedia's avatar

Seriously?

holden's avatar

When she finally has sex with you, you’ll know for sure.

ringaroundtherosie's avatar

Does she make you wait or does she make others wait when you need to speak to her?

priorities…

faye's avatar

Have you got a ring and a date? otherwise she’s footloose.

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YARNLADY's avatar

Only time will tell. If she forsakes all others for you, that means she loves you. If she spares some time for you out of her busy schedule, maybe not so much.

DarlingRhadamanthus's avatar

So….let me get this straight….

You have a girlfriend…who has a boyfriend?
You see her twice every month?
You hug and kiss?
She still accepts gifts and is in a relationship with him?
He doesn’t know about you, right?
She says she wants to marry you next year even though she has a boyfriend in another town who doesn’t know about you?

Until there is no other boyfriend but you…..it would be difficult to ascertain the level of interest/love she has for you.

dpworkin's avatar

The last time this Flutherite posted it was an obvious troll, with badly mangled language. Suddenly his syntax and spelling have improved, though they are not yet perfect. I have no reason to believe that this question is not merely another way for him to amuse himself at the expense of the community. The question is basically on the same subject, just phrased in a marginally more civilized manner.

flameboi's avatar

… you just feel it, you don’t need to ask or even wonder

CMaz's avatar

“she’s footloose”

I concur.

drClaw's avatar

The only way to tell if someone is in love with you is to take their temperature while they repeat your name in one of the romance languages (I find Pig Latin to be the most accurate). If the thermometer reads 99.4 then they are definitely in love with you, but if it reads 98.6 or lower then she must love someone else.

A few things I failed to mention: A glass thermometer has to be used, digital ones cannot detect “love” like the old fashioned ones do. Also you may have put this together already, but since your lady friend will be saying your name you won’t be able to take her temp orally, your best bet is to take the temp anally. You could try the arm pit, but it will almost certainly skew your results.

Go here for more information on this process… www.hookedonphonics.com

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