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NSFW -- Ladies, do you enjoy removing your clothes for a man you find desirable, as he watches?

Asked by plethora (9555 points ) February 7th, 2010

Is removing your clothes as your partner watches something that you enjoy, or do you find it degrading and undesirable….or something else?

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augustlan's avatar

I don’t find it degrading, but I don’t find it comfortable. I’m not much good at play acting, and that’s what it feels like to me. I’m more likely to laugh than to come off sexy!

rangerr's avatar

Hm. I prefer keeping my clothes on in general.

IBERnineD's avatar

I like to do it, a lot. I think because I am a visual person and I like the idea of someone enjoying looking at me. Just the way I am, I even like taking clothes off when I am by myself.

Dr_C's avatar

I like to imagine @IBERnineD doing what she just described.
In a non-pervy way. We are laughing this up on a group skype call

Violet's avatar

I actually rip my clothes of as fast as possible. If he wanted me to take them of slowly, I ‘d love to.

Just_Justine's avatar

I love it, possibly as I have learned in later life, because I am an exhibitionist. But it has to be arty and great. For example ripping my clothes off during lunch break won’t do it for me. To me it is about the tease, the eroticism, the lingering of enticement. I think I should have been Dita von Teese’s sister.

lifeflame's avatar

sure. why not?
in fact, I find it arousing to have him watch.

ucme's avatar

Now, where did I put those binoculars?

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

I certainly do!The beauty and grace of trying to escape a snowmobile suit with a broken zipper is beyond compare!Something he’ll never forget ;)

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I never do this but I wouldn’t mind – I’ve done burlesque before, as well, and was really good at it.

Frankie's avatar

Abso-f*ckin-lutely. I love slowly taking off my clothes in front of a guy…I like being watched by someone I find sexually attractive, knowing that he’s getting turned on by watching me. A lot of the time, however, things are too hot and heavy and clothes just get ripped off. But when it starts out slow and I can undress in front of him it becomes part of the foreplay.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

Most definitely, if I believe the man desires me in return. I’m a lingerie loving girl and have a lot of fun dressing up in order for layers and goodies to be seen later. It helps if you’ve got a partner who enjoys and appreciates this kind of thing though otherwise you end up getting all turned on by yourself.

wundayatta's avatar

<——-[taking notes for little black book]

plethora's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Burlesque?? Damn, I am majorly impressed..:)

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@plethora it was just a couple of times, but it was great

plethora's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir One time, two times, whatever…...I’m impressed….and especially that you are good at it.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@plethora that’s entirely up for debate. but if you have fun out there, then it’s almost always the case that others think you’re good at it.

Sophief's avatar

Degrading?? NO! I would take them off however he wanted in whatever way he wanted.

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