Should I continue this arrangement?

) March 17th, 2010

I had an oppertunity come up where I’d be cleaning this lady’s house. She’s on dialysis and her husband spends all his time taking care of her. It job is basically over, but I spit polish once a month. she forgets and thinks it’s once a week. I also mow the lawn every month. I do get compensated for my time, but I can’t make the drive like I used to and I’m thinking that I should stop doing it.

On one hand, it’s good karma and it’s a commitment I made. On the other hand, it’s not as beneficial to me as it is to her anymore. How should I handle this?

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It sounds like she appreciates what you do for her, you are a part of her life while she is unable to go out. Is she declining in health? it might be a good task for you for variety.

phil196662 (2681

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are you doing it for free? if not than you should just give notice

trailsillustrated (16799

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You did make a commitment and doing so is a responsibility you should uphold. Sounds as though these folks do need your help and if the task you committed to has changed than you may have an out if you are looking for one.

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I’m not doing it for free. Let’s just say it’s not minimum wage. Travel costs take up ¾ of what she’s paying me. She isn’t relying on the state or government to take care of her.
She is declining in health, sort of. Every time I go over there, there’s something different. I’m just not sure if I’m being taken advantage of or not.

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