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What is a nerd?

Asked by cornbird (1750points) April 27th, 2010

People say that persons who wear glasses and have extreme fashion nightmares are considered nerds. Or people who are extremely good at computers are nerds.What exactly is a nerd and how do you define a nerd?

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aprilsimnel's avatar

This handy Venn diagram should answer your question.

For the record, I am a geek, but only with regards to the comedy and rock music of the English-speaking nations. And cheeseburgers.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Hmmm…I might be one….I like birdwatching ;)nerds rock

cornbird's avatar

@lucilee So what if you like birdwatching? Does that mean you are a nerd? Its just a hobby.

cornbird's avatar

A specialist is a nerd? So chuck norris and jet lee are nerds then? They are specialists….

erichw1504's avatar

@aprilsimnel Damn, beat me to it!

I am a little bit of all of those in the venn diagram, so I’d say I’m a nerd also.

cornbird's avatar

@aprilsimnel and @erichw1504 that does not help me…..

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@cornbird To some people they are nerds, yes.

erichw1504's avatar

”...a person who passionately pursues intellectual activities, esoteric knowledge, or other obscure interests that are age-inappropriate, rather than engaging in more social or popular activities. Therefore, a nerd is often excluded from physical activity and considered a loner by peers, or will tend to associate with like-minded people.”

From Wikipedia.

cornbird's avatar

@erichw1504 ok so then people who spend time on the computer all day or people who play chess alot…are they nerds?

aprilsimnel's avatar

Why doesn’t this help you? What aspect of nerdiness is the basis of your question; dress, appearance, manner of speaking? Nerds don’t care about fashionable clothes, they don’t know how to interact with “normal”, less intelligent people and they’re usually obsessed with esoteric things that most people around them aren’t like computer programming (not just being on the computer), WoW, Star Trek, sure, chess, or go to anime cons and have problems interacting romantically with girls. The female nerds are few and far in between, but have the same issues going on.

Is that what you meant?

Fyrius's avatar

A miserable little pile of secrets!

cornbird's avatar

Ok what if they dress well and attract alot of girls but is still crazy about Star Trek. Are they nerds? What about people who do the right thing all the time are they nerds?

slick44's avatar

Someone who is to into, what ever it is,their into.And are affraid of the opposite sex.

beautifulbobby193's avatar

A nerd is usually a well behaved young person whom is more interested in non-physical activities such as comics, literature, movies & computer games, as opposed to being interested in physical (usually sporting) activities and having sex with women.

chels's avatar

“Nerd” can be defined by many different things.
People who play massive amounts of video games (more importantly RPGs)
People who do lots of things with computers (programming, design, etc.)
People who like fantasy stuff. Whether it be Sci-Fi or magic/dragons/things of that sort.
People who like comic books can be considered nerds.
People who like to read lots of books.
People who play things like Magic the Gathering, WoW, Age of Empires, Pokemon, etc.

There is really tons of things you can do to be classified as a nerd.
I myself am pretty darn nerdy and I love it.

cornbird's avatar

Ok. I like computers alot. I like to play chess. Im shy around girls and I dont play sports. I dress pretty good, but some ppl say that im in a shell…am I a nerd?

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@cornbird -I agree! I don’t care if anyone wants to call me one :))

Snarp's avatar

I think the venn diagram link sums it up pretty well. But I’m not sure if I’m a nerd or a dweeb.

chels's avatar

@erichw1504 I’m a nerd, and I look nothing like that. Don’t be so stereotypical! ^_^

erichw1504's avatar

@chels Well, I heard nerds tend to cover their lower face with pillows and blankets.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

A nerd is alot like the old saying about what is the definition of obscene. It’s hard to describe but I know it when I see it.

cornbird's avatar

I think a nerd is someone who has low self confidence and has trouble expressing themselves and does weird and annoying things to get attention….is that a nerd?

Snarp's avatar

@cornbird No, a nerd doesn’t do anything to get attention, as a general rule. They avoid attention like the plague. A nerd does weird and annoying things because they enjoy doing those things.

cornbird's avatar

@Snarp but if someone behaves like that in high school they will be called nerds..if they behave like Kenan and Kel

aprilsimnel's avatar

That’s probably because every generation group of teens redefines “nerd” for themselves. But as a general rule, nerds since the mid-1970s are pretty much supersmart social inept misfits, usually guys, who like sci-fi, computers and role-playing games.

You know that CBS show The Big Bang Theory? Those dudes are (young adult) nerds.

Snarp's avatar

@cornbird Who are Kenan and Kel?

slick44's avatar

@erichw1504… very nice, you actually took the time to look it up.

erichw1504's avatar

Just watch an episode of Family Matters, you’ll figure out what a nerd is in no time.

beautifulbobby193's avatar

@cornbird No offense intended, but yes, you are a nerd. It’s not necessarily a bad thing though. I think ultimately the nerds will end up getting the prettiest/youngest women in the long term as money becomes more important to women than being captain of the football team does.

chels's avatar

@beautifulbobby193 Nerds can be hot. It’s totally possible.

Berserker's avatar

@Fyrius Enough talk, Lurve at you!

beautifulbobby193's avatar

@chels To me hot is sexy. A girl can be good looking without being sexy. I think a female nerd can be sexy to a guy, but I’m not sure girls feel the same way about nerdy guys.

cornbird's avatar

Ok then so what is a cool guy? If I am a nerd what is a cool guy then?

ShiningToast's avatar

@cornbird Dude, relax. Don’t sweat labels. :)

Snarp's avatar

Marilyn Monroe married Arthur Miller.

Snarp's avatar

What makes you a nerd is that you’re obsessing over what a nerd is. When I was in high school a friend of mine and I pretty much had the entire social hierarchy mapped out complete with complete plans for how to infiltrate a given part of that hierarchy given a fresh start at a new school. Total nerds.

Luna's avatar

to me a nerd is anyone who goes overboard with anything that has to do with education.

mattbrowne's avatar

A unabashed geek.

Luna's avatar

a nephariously esotericerical reject of damnation

talljasperman's avatar

Anyone who tries to emulate Mr. Spock from Star Trek.

Berserker's avatar

Disapointed that Castlevania references here went unnoticed.

talljasperman's avatar

What does Simon Belmont have to do with nerds?

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