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(NSFW) Roleplay?

Asked by zwingli (606points) September 8th, 2010

I’ve always heard about this, but never gave it much thought. I want to try this with my wife but don’t know exactly how to pitch the idea and what roles are normal.

What roles are appropriate in role play? How do I bring up the idea to my wife?

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Seaofclouds's avatar

Role playing can be a lot of things. It can be something like playing doctor/nurse, teacher/student, police officer/criminal, etc. It’s really whatever you want it to be. Sometimes it’s just pretending to be in a certain situation. What’s appropriate is completely up to you and your wife. You would need to discuss it and set up boundaries before hand to be sure you don’t go to far with it.

As far as bringing it up, just tell her that you are interested in trying something new. Then explain what you would like to try with her. You could either say that you are interested in role playing in general and get her ideas or tell her about a specific scenario you would like to act out. Good luck!

Ben_Dover's avatar

Figure out what you want to play, and then get a magazine reflecting that activity. Leave it where the wife will find it.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

I agree with @Seaofclouds Not everyone is going to be comfortable with playing certain things, so just say you’re interested in trying something new – and talk it out with her. You never know, she herself might be excited about it. I do not recommend leaving something like a magazine out for her to find it, because if she finds it, it might create unnecessary questions in her mind; “Is he dissatisfied? Why didn’t he tell me? Does he have a fetish I don’t know about? Why didn’t he tell me?”, etc. Best to just be honest with her, because it shows how comfortable you are with her – which matters. If you aren’t comfortable bringing it up with her, why would either of you be comfortable actually acting things out?

Don’t be afraid. Good luck.

kevbo's avatar

Bring it up in the abstract… “I read this article about role play [blah blah] what do you think?” go from there.

loser's avatar

Role play = anything goes! Ask her if she has any fantasies that she would like to experience with you. Open up to her about what you would like to experience as well.

Scooby's avatar

Communication is key, maybe she’s said something in the past that you can bring back up & ask her to elaborate on? :-/ works every time, especially if you are willing to play her game, you can have a good giggle with it…..

phil196662's avatar

You could start in the living room on the couch rubbing her feet, at that time she is submissive and relaxed so just off the wall brush her legs and push up her shirt and brush her stomach. If she says it feels good then you dominant and she is submissive and your role playing! You take it another step and lean over to kiss her but grab her hair to hold her head, while kissing her if she moans and struggles a little pause and tell her to stop to see what she does. If she doesn’t like it then stop, if she obeys then she wants you to do stuff so then you hold her hair and gently pinch her stomach to make her groan while your giving tongue.

In this senerio she is submissive and your dominant and doing stuff as a Master, after a few minutes doing this making her wiggle you should pause and ask her- does this feel ok to you? see what she says- she could stand up, strip and tell you pin her down and tickle her silly, but before starting ask her for an easy to remember word and when she tells you then say to her. This is supposed to feel good so if it becomes unpleasant you say that word and I will stop and we will talk! The word is called a SAFE Word!

try this and see what happens, it could start an amazing depth for both of you and a new level of pleasure! Have Fun!

Dewey420's avatar

@Seaofclouds you forgot Catholic Priest/school boy .. of course my all time favorite is Mother/daughter..yup.

ducky_dnl's avatar

I want my husband to dress up as Sherlock Holmes and I will be Irene Adler. That seems so sexy. I also agree with @phil196662

zwingli's avatar

Thanks for all your input.

phil196662's avatar

Ooooooooo @ducky_dnl ; Period dress-up! love it… Be sure the clothes can be scissored off if needed if the heat goes fast, the wife likes dressing Mideveil where she is disobedient and requires being chained to a wall or the Rack- but with tickling, wax or ice!

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