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( NSFW ) So why her but not the other?

Asked by mazingerz88 (28814points) March 17th, 2012

A guy recently related that one of the things he enjoy most during sex is having women suck at his nipples. But once he goes steady with these women, he doesn’t enjoy the nipple action anymore. What? Why?

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zensky's avatar

Sounds strange. Ask him.

janbb's avatar

I think @zensky nailed that one.

AshLeigh's avatar

Lolwut?
You should ask him, and tell us. >.<

dappled_leaves's avatar

Maybe he doesn’t like what that act symbolizes for him – like he may see it as putting him in a “mother” position. It might be a turn-on during the act, but when he’s “going steady”, then he has to find a place for that dynamic within their relationship. In other words, he may be embarrassed about why he wants to do that. If it’s just casual sex, he doesn’t have to think about it unless he’s doing it.

Not saying there’s anything wrong with it, just saying maybe he thinks there is.

SavoirFaire's avatar

Sounds a bit like this.

wundayatta's avatar

At first it’s exciting and new and different. But nipples are very sensitive. After a while, it might get to be too much. We can stand more intense feelings in the beginning of a relationship, but after a while, they become too intense.

At that point, you don’t want it for a while and really, you can only do it very rarely. I think we can stand more intensity of feeling when a relationship is new than we can when we know someone for a while.

I hope that makes sense.

blueiiznh's avatar

Because he saves that special action for his next one that is waiting in the wings.

A bit odd, but it sounds like he uses that as some sort of internal mechanism to save for the next one.

choreplay's avatar

Sometimes males nipples are overwhelmingly sensitive, that’s likely a big part of it. Why only with the new ones? It just must be the erotic context he will allow this in. If its overwhelming he wouldn’t want that on a regular basis.

Ela's avatar

Maybe the woman doesn’t look for other unusual ways to excite him and always does the nipple action?

hmmm….. why am i following this question that it pops with new activity for me….....
i must have notes somewhere <rummages around>

Ela's avatar

@blueiiznh nipple=2 of my fav keywords ; )

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