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Do people's expectations of you affect your decisions?

Asked by tyrantxseries (4722points) December 20th, 2008

are your decisions based on what’s best for you?

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steven's avatar

I really like to take into consideration the opinions of people I have regard for if my decision is going to affect them in some way. .

bythebay's avatar

People’s expectations probably do affect my decisions more than I’d like to admit. But I did just admit it, didn’t I?

SuperMouse's avatar

For a long time I based most of my decisions on what others thought of me. As I’ve gotten older, not so much. I made a huge decision recently that I was almost universally upbraided for. I know it was the best decision for me and my family and I am glad I did it. If I had avoided doing it because of what others might think, I would still be in an unhappy, uncomfortable, stagnant place. It was actually quite liberating on many levels.

bythebay's avatar

You go SuperMouse!!

Spargett's avatar

There’s always a imaginary crowd of peers in our head judging every action we take.

jca's avatar

the expectations of my boss affects what and when i do what i do at work.

krose1223's avatar

I do things for myself mostly. But sometimes I say things just to tell people what they want to hear. Mostly at work, just to prevent tension.

augustlan's avatar

People in my life expect me to be a morally strong person. Sometimes that helps me to be a morally stong person.

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