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watwatwat's avatar

what should I do?

Asked by watwatwat (1points) March 6th, 2008 from iPhone

ok there’s this girl and she’s 3 years older than me I really like her but were not even really friends should I just ask her out or try to become friends (And just so you don’t gave to ask I’m 18 and she’s 21

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KimboSlice's avatar

Don’t live in regret essay

iceblu's avatar

ditto, shes 21, she can drink, party, go to the bars, everything fun that you would love to do with her but cant cause your 18… then you would drag her down cause you couldn’t go out with her.. if stuff actually started between you two…

my advice, get someone thats not 21 or older.

8lightminutesaway's avatar

meh, not everyone drinks and parties. Depending on how much you’ve talked to her (I’m assuming you have a couple times), I’d say be smooth and ask her out. Think of it this way, if you ask her out she could say yes or no. If you don’t ask her… well its a definite no.

kevbo's avatar

Flirt first, then ask her out.

scamp's avatar

Ask her out. You’ll never know how she feels if you don’t.

cwilbur's avatar

If you’re “not really friends,” how do you know you like her?

There’s usually a maturity gap between guys and girls of the same age; it’s only worse when the woman is 3 years older. She may have no interest at all in you. Brace yourself for rejection, and then, as kevbo says, flirt first, then ask her out. You’ll get a sense from the flirting if she’s interested or just being polite, and then you’ll know whether or not it’s something to pursue.

djbuu's avatar

Look at it this way. If you don’t ask her out, you have a 0% chance. If you ask her out, at least you have some chance.

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