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(NSFW) What is the difference from rough sex and sex?

Asked by zwingli (606points) October 18th, 2010

Sex vs. rough sex? How is it different? Is one more enjoyable than the other?

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Zyx's avatar

Well if you reduce it to a form without any technique, normal sex is very mechanical.
Rough sex is the same but instead of pistons you’ve now got anvils slamming into each other.

Does that clear it up at all?

Winters's avatar

Rough sex for me = More aggressiveness going both ways, we’re all over the place (walls, table, couch, etc.), she scratches, we both bite, pretty much feral… and then there’s SM stuff but I ain’t going there today.

Sex for me = more respectful, gentle, passionate, trying to please each other, kinda hard to explain past that (though I’m still a bit bitey).

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Cruiser's avatar

You should know what sex is and rough sex just takes that up a notch or two with submission and sleeper holds. Tapping out means it was good for you..real good! Anyone with a “safe word” knows what I mean!! ;)

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Neizvestnaya's avatar

For me, rough sex is where I feel a bit detached from my partner. It could be on my end or I feel it from him or notice it seems to be both of us. Rough is where for an instant I’m out of my comfort zone to where I don’t feel entirely in control of myself. It’s not better, not at all but it’s a change up of intensity I enjoy infrequently.

Blackberry's avatar

I can only have rough sex with a stranger or someone I don’t have deeper feelings about. Rough sex to me is having less regard for the other person’s body/feelings; it involves using their body as an outlet for your stress relief and deeper sexual fantasies and feral gratification. I like it…but I don’t like it lol.

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Jude's avatar

You sure do ask a lot of NSFW questions.

It’s more aggressive.

palerider's avatar

rough sex (screwing, boning, fucking) is hard and deep and fast, sometimes nasty and is a great way to relieve angst felt torward the partner. regular sex (making love) tends to be much slower, more passionate, and more sensual, more of a connection between the people.

augustlan's avatar

Normal sex can be gentle and loving, rough and tumble, and anywhere in between… sometimes all during the same encounter. I think the definition of rough sex would depend on each individual person. Some people like a little slap on the ass and wouldn’t consider that rough, while others would feel like that crosses the line.

Tomfafa's avatar

Gotta be the ringing bell between rounds… a sure sign things are getting rough.

xjustxxclaudiax's avatar

Rough sex involves lots of alcohol, lots of energy, lots of hair pulling and weird animal like growls AND…lots of lube :P The louder the better, maybe even some dirty talk here and there…Normal sex has more…passion, communication, and love…We look deep into each others eyes and go at a steady pace..Kinda like slow dancing, but better ;)

windimera's avatar

lol…I agree with all of you…however…making love is more of a bond between each other that leads to a type of sex and fulfillment. The rough sex…hmmm. the more grunting and growling it takes the harder you will fall. You can always tell by the look your partner gets…the feral animal look that tells me there is no going back now. I am gonna really get it..haha.

Deklandb's avatar

I think its more than just faster pace or greater force to each thrust, i think of rough sex as being creative. the experimental stuff like paddling and servant punishment and forced orgasms, now thats the rough stuff.

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