Someone you're seeing sleeps in the same bed as one of your friends. Is this awkward, yes or no?
So you start seeing someone for, lets say a month. Everything is going well, you have no real “establishment” or titles but you both are mutually evident and confidently exclusive. You step out of town for a weekend and your interest (we’ll say “Date”) ends up bumping into a friend of yours (which we’ll label, “Friend”) while they were out with other friends. The group ends up hanging out together for the night and at the end, Friend asks Date if they could sleep over Date’s place as Friend is too drunk to drive themselves back to their place. Although Date has other friends sleeping in the same room as well, Date agrees and they both sleep in the same bed (mind you, Date only has a single sized bed). Date after the fact informs you of the night soon there after but doesn’t exactly clarify who ended up sleeping where.
You inquire about the situation, and later learn that Friend and Date slept in the same but Date then swears on the holy grail of Honesty and Trust that nothing happened between the two of them, they didn’t kiss, touch, have sex, etc. and that Date doesn’t have any feelings what so ever for Friend.
Circumstantial, yes. Friend was drunk and didn’t have anywhere else to stay. However, what are your thoughts on this, given you were in this situation?
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