How can I get my boyfriend to cuddle after sex?
After sex he usually cleans up then doesn’t get back in bed. He’ll smoke or watch TV. I tell him I like him to stay a few minutes because cuddling after sex feels as good as the sex itself. He says as a man he doesn’t need that, that he can just turn sex on and off. For me it builds up and then I come slowly down after. He says he understands, and I know he likes to satisfy me, but before I know it he’s in the kitchen making a sandwich as if he’s forgotten. How can I hold his attention just a few minutes longer after sex?