Remember, your mum and dad are doing their best to be the parents you need. They will get things wrong from time to time. Try to forgive them their mistakes. Even if they have other children, you don’t come with a rule book so they are going to have to get to know you just as much as you have to get to know them.
Just today, there is a newborn baby in my life so this is particularly relevant to me right now. I’d say…
You have unbelievably great potential. Choose to listen to those who support and believe in that potential, and ignore and avoid those who deny it.
Don’t you think it would be a lonely life if you trusted no one?
Trust is an important part of friendship, relationship, and families.
Sure, it’s something to be earned. But not taken away completely…
believe me it will be a safe life if you limit your trust, you won’t get hurt too much when you expect cheating and lies from others. Anyway you may not take my advice seriously but I am talking about strangers even a friend of yours could use your friendship to get what he/she wants.It’s all about caution.
I didn’t say trust was something to be thrown around, and given to everyone freely.
But I know for a fact that there are some people who are trustworthy.
Again, it’s something to be earned.
People have been brought up to believe that EVERYONE is out to get you, and that EVERYONE will hurt you just for the sake of hurting you. But not everyone is that way.
I mean, are you that way? Saying everyone is trying to hurt everyone would imply that you’re also trying to hurt everyone…
That you matter, that you are here to learn and teach lessons in your life.
To take the good with the bad, but lean on the goodside more.
That you are a precious person, that life is precious, that you are given life to proceed in helping others.