Is she interested in me?
FML, I’m about to ask a does she like me question on fluther, what is the world coming to.
I’m 28, she is 25, I have known her for years and years, and have always enjoyed spending time with her, but I was never really interested in her in that way.
There was a time when she and I would spend a few hours a day together along with a mob of about 5 to 20 other friends, but otherwise only speak to each other from time to time and in passing.
Tonight I went out for a walk and bumped in to her in town, I said hi and so did she, it looked like we were on our way, but I stopped, turned round and called out to her to hold up a moment. I went up to her and asked her if she knew where I could get some weed (we used to smoke together) and off we went to get some.
Long story short… we arrive back at a place where we used to smoke together in the woods, we sit down on rocks and start to get stoned. She then asks “So, what are you doing these days, you have a girlfriend?” I respond no, she goes on to talk about how she has been single for 6 months now.
She continued talking, but by this time I was already looking in to the distance, half listening, with a grin on my face, wondering what she meant to tell me.
She asked me what was I grinning at, so I told her “Nothing, for a moment there I thought you were trying to tell me something” She then proceeded to act surprised and deny it.
We spent a few hours in the woods getting stoned, looking at the stars and talking, we had a great time, and I have plans with her to meet tomorrow after work.
What are my odds of making a fool out of my self tomorrow by finding out the hard way I’m only in the friend zone, and that she was just curious about me being in a relationship or not.
(I would assume from her POV that if I’m alone with her in the woods at night getting high, that I don’t have a SO, maybe better to give the benefit of the doubt on that one)
EDIT: shit this thing is long, i’ve got it bad don’t I