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College_girl's avatar

Who wears which pendant for this heart necklace?

Asked by College_girl (881 points ) October 18th, 2011

So I bought this pendant for my boyfriend and I to wear but we dont know who wears which one? Like it would make sense for me to wear the girl’s and him the guy’s, but I feel like it would also make sense for me to wear his and him wear mine…

http://www.amazon.com/Interlocking-Heart-Stainless-Puzzle-Pendant/dp/B001871DIM/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&qid=1318973462&sr=8-10

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njnyjobs's avatar

you should wear the male icon and your boyfriend the female icon.

rebbel's avatar

You wear the female and your friend wears the male heart.

SpatzieLover's avatar

Give one half of the pendant to your signficant other so they can always keep you in their heart

^That’s a clue…You want him to keep you in “his heart”. He keeps the female symbol you keep the male.

XOIIO's avatar

Does it really matter? It’s a freaking necklace, that’s all.

bkcunningham's avatar

You have his heart (you wear the male symbol). He has your (female symbol) heart. For instance, if I would see you wearing a male symbol on a half-heart, I’d ask you whose heart you are carrying with you.

I think it is very pretty and a romantic sentiment.

College_girl's avatar

Yes it does matter actually. I love him and want it to be perfect. Love your answer bkcunningham!

bkcunningham's avatar

If it is a gift, might I suggest a beautiful poem to go along with the present? I read it to my husband on my wedding day when I was married many, many years ago.

[i carry your heart with me(i carry it in]
By E. E. Cummings 1894–1962

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)

ToxicLove's avatar

Hmm.I think you should wear the boy pendent and he should wear the female one.That way it’ll be almost like a collar.Something like,Hey if you see this person know that they belong to me. Aww.

Studiobrat's avatar

I think you could rotate the pendants. You wear the girl pendant and he wears the boy pendant for a while. Then you switch the pendants and you wear the boy pendant and he wears the girl pendant and switch again when you want to. That way, you would get a feel of who should wear which pendant or if you want to continue to switch.

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