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NSFW My attractiveness towards the opposite human seems to be at an all time high any advice how to lower it?

Asked by whitetigress (3129 points ) November 11th, 2011

Okay, so I’m turning 24 next month and I’m a college student. I am noticing more and more girls. I can’t help but see their face and their butts, as I’m a face and butt kind of guy, (not to mention I do find a girls “brain”::commonsense:: and artistic taste to also be attractive) but lately, like this second half the year I can’t help but notice more and more women. And not just college girls, I’m talking even cougars! Help me out, of course I would never act upon any of these attractions, as I’ve already got my honey buns. But what advice would you give me to help calm me down from looking? (It’s almost automatic) Any medicines? Any chants in my head I should perform? Have you gone through this? Am I on my way to being the worlds biggest pervert? (I don’t want to be!) Help me out, hormones, hormones, hormones!

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EmptyNest's avatar

Lower it? Nah, ‘fraid not. I don’t mind my guy looking. Like you said, it’s automatic. You’re not a perv. You’ve just reached your peak. Just enjoy the ride.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

Get off the internet, get out, and get your lip on a girl.

marinelife's avatar

Look just don’t stare at other women right in front of your lady. Otherwise, looking is free and harmless as long as you don’t act on it.

Are you happy with the level of sex that you are having? Could you just be horny?

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

Your question does not specify what problem this has caused and why you feel you want to do something drastic to alter your current state. Your answer will help us offer you better and more specific advice.

Bellatrix's avatar

Well I think you are in ‘normal’ territory here. Keep busy? Get out there and play sport. Take up a hobby that keeps you very active? I think that’s about all you can do. Try to take your mind off sex. :D

whitetigress's avatar

@Bellatrix Oh I do keep very active. I go to the college gym. Where it’s hard not to notice either.

Bellatrix's avatar

Yes, that would be a bit disconcerting I imagine :-)

JLeslie's avatar

24. It took until 24 to be girl obsessed? Is this girl distraction causing you to not focus on your studies? Interupting your life somehow?

zensky's avatar

I can’t help but see their face and their butts, as I’m a face and butt kind of guy, (not to mention I do find a girls “brain”::commonsense:: and artistic taste to also be attractive).

Yes, and?

Luiveton's avatar

Go have sex.

janbb's avatar

He says he is with a woman. I think that is the problem he is having with all this.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Focus all the energy on your honey bun. You do something nice for her everyday and see how she responds. Oh, and it never goes away. Women are always awesome.

Ayesha's avatar

@whitetigress Calm down. It’s all in your head right? Don’t worry about it so much.

saint's avatar

What’s the problem? If there is a problem, I have the same problem. And I never thought it was a problem. You’re starting to worry me.

EmptyNest's avatar

I have to tell you a funny story. My boyfriend and I were sitting on my balcony. A woman who lives across the parking lot walked on the sidewalk just below my balcony with her baby carrier. We both leaned over to peak at the baby who was by then, three months old and I’d only seen the carrier prior to this. She was wearing a shirt that showed cleavage. I said, “aww, the baby is so cute!” He said, “Oh, she had a baby?” We both laughed and laughed. I thought it was a really cute joke and I felt good that he was comfortable enough to say that to me. Being older and mature is GREAT!

Coloma's avatar

Fear not, you are a “normal” young guy!
Perverts never worry if they are perverts, just as crazy people never question their sanity. lol

everephebe's avatar

Have you tried masturbating?

everephebe's avatar

I mean I’m 24 at university and there is a plethora of the pulchritudinous…. and other than trying to hook up with absolutely all of them….

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