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(NSFW) What other reasons could be there for the swelling?

Asked by nailpolishfanatic (6592 points ) January 6th, 2013

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months and just recently, I especially noticed after we tried the ‘doggy style’ position that at the end of each session his private member always ends up being swollen and sometimes even has scratches on it.

We think it’s because I have a very tight lady part and that could be the reason, I’m always well lubricated so I don’t know what this could be.

Do you guys have any idea what it could be?

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Adirondackwannabe's avatar

You got any teeth in there?
You know I’m kidding. You’re totally stripped? No clothes he could be hitting?

livelaughlove21's avatar

Scratches? Damn, you got razor blades in there? :)

Are you sure they’re scratches and not busted blood vessels? It’s not that uncommon for a man’s penis to be sore and/or swollen after rigorous and/or a lot of sex. Doggie style makes the vagina even snugger around his penis than usual, so this could be the cause even if you’re well lubricated.

The only other thing I can think of is an allergy, but if it only happens after one position then probably not.

Coloma's avatar

Do you have prickly edges from a shave job that is growing out?

burntbonez's avatar

I agree with @Coloma. If you have short, growing out hairs, that can be pretty mean to a penis. It can irritate it quite a bit, although normally it is swollen anyway, so I’m not sure if you mean additional swelling or if you mean redness and irritation.

El_Cadejo's avatar

First thing that I thought of was from prickly hairs growing in like @Coloma said.

Mariah's avatar

Are you guys just having sex? No foreplay? I ask because my guy gets swollen too, but not from PIV sex.

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Coloma's avatar

Is he having trouble with his zipper? A little zipper slip perhaps. lol
Maybe the scratches are already there and you guys just aren’t noticing them until they become inflamed after sex.

livelaughlove21's avatar

@Coloma I think he’d notice something like that.

Coloma's avatar

@livelaughlove21 Well….you’d think so, but a lot of guys are really not very observant. lol

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pleiades's avatar

He could be flogging the dolphin really hard before sex so he can last longer?

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wundayatta's avatar

I hope he’s STD free. Are you using a condom?

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SABOTEUR's avatar

That would happen to me quite frequently when I was…ahem…still learning my way around.

I would respectfully suggest less frequency and more lubrication.

(A condom wouldn’t hurt either.)

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